Monday, January 15, 2018

Book Reviews coming soon!

Planning to do some book reviews...as I go through them at the speed of fire through dry forests :-P

Anyways, came across this awesome book blogger, who has such amazing reviews of some collection-worthy books on her blog
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Tuesday, September 7, 2010

"Our emotions need to be as educated as our intellect. It is important to know how to feel, how to respond, and how to let life in so that it can touch you." —Jim Rohn

September 07, 2010 10:20 pm Tuesday

"Our emotions need to be as educated as our intellect. It is important to know how to feel, how to respond, and how to let life in so that it can touch you." —Jim Rohn

I just came across the above quote while visiting a friend's FB homepage today and well, it just struck a chord. So, I put this up as my status ... and now am putting this in my blog as I want as many people as possible to read this and understand its import.

Though all of us today claim to be civilized and educated people living in a civilized world ... what strikes me as weird and ironical is that we often tend to do those things which we normally don't want/like others to do to us. Maybe we all need to re-learn the lessons that we had learnt during our childhood..."One should do unto others as s/he would like them to do unto her/him!" All too often the very same people who complain that they have been hurt, humiliated or embarrassed - mind you, these are their feelings and they might not always be true - end up doing the same things, at times going to a greater extent - to others.

I really wonder as to why these people have such selfish and blown-out-of-proportion egos ... why do they always think things have to be about them, even when they aren't? Anyways I seem to be digressing here...this wasn't about conceited individuals...

Rather this write-up was to remind people as well as myself that there are certain norms and acceptable ways of expressing one's emotions, responding to uncomfortable situations instead of just behaving in any particular way we want to! When we react to perceived insults/hurt..we really need to remember that what we perceive might not always be true and furthermore, even if it is true..we need to think twice before reacting ... because this thinking capability is what separates us from animals...and if we tend to always react reflexively like they do, then we have no right to be called humans! Just like we have emotions and feelings that do get hurt, it won't hurt to remember that so does the other person in front of us. And repeating bad behavior (if it was really bad in the first place) doesn't make one a greater human, rather it just goes to show that his/her ancestors were really apes....:-P

Anyways..bonne nuit everybody...gotta go now...enough of ramblings for tonite....:-)

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Muslims, Islam and Terrorism

August 18,2010 10:00 pm

I am not much of an authority on Islam or on terrorism. But yes, the very mention of these 2 terms in the same sentence raises my shackles! Well, not because I believe all Muslims are peace-loving and harmless, but because those who call themselves Muslims and indulge in such derogatory and filthy acts are far removed from what the Holy Book, the Quran says or the religion 'Islam' preaches.

With my limited knowledge and understanding, I will refrain from quoting various sources and ayahs from the Quran. Rather the point I will try to make is that terrorists ... those who murder, plunder and kill without any valid rhyme or reason...do not belong to any religion, race or creed. Theirs is a twisted frame of mind, one that knows no logic or rationale...rather it is driven by thoughts of unnecessary hatred and intention to spread evil and chaos! To me, these terrorists are nothing but those individuals who are under the influence of Satan and love creating and sustaining an atmosphere of fear, hatred, violence, evil, suspicion, and discord. What the terrorists claim to do in the name of religion, has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with it!

Religion commands love, mercy and peace. Terror, on the other hand, is the opposite of religion; it is cruel, merciless and demands bloodshed, murder and misery. This being the case, the origins of a terrorist act should be sought in disbelief rather than in religiousness. The origins should be sought in fascist, communist, racist or materialist outlook on life. The name or the identity of the trigger-man/suicide-bomber is not important. If he can kill innocent people without blinking an eye, then he is an unbeliever, not a believer. He is a murderer with no fear of Allah, whose main ambition is to shed blood and to cause harm. For this reason, "Islamic terror" is an erroneous concept which contradicts Islam's message. The religion of Islam by no means countenances terror. On the contrary, terror (i.e. murders committed against innocent people) in Islam is a great crime and Muslims are responsible for preventing these acts and bringing peace and justice to the world.

To understand what moves these terrorists, what force propels them to act in the irrational and inhuman manner that they do, one needs to understand their thoughts and the factors that strongly induce such unrealistic and unacceptable behaviors in them! One of the most important characteristic of terrorists is that they act with a collective spirit. Within this spirit, individual ideas and personal choice are disregarded as everyone is directed toward one single goal. Those who act within this collective spirit may do things they would never do in their right mind and commit acts without using their own will and consciousness. In many countries of the world, terror groups composed of a few unintelligent and uneducated people get caught up in the emotional hysteria of mass meetings, slogans, and without even knowing what they are doing or why, they get involved in committing mass atrocities. In one moment, such people can turn into killers with blood on their hands, and even terrorists who are able to commit inhumane acts. A person may seem quiet and calm when he is alone, but when he becomes a part of a terrorist group, he may become capable of committing acts of arson and assault for no apparent reason. Such spells are cast over individuals that they are even willing to be killed for their cause. The majority of those who take part in acts of terror often have weak wills and consciences, and they become like a flock of sheep under the influence of mass psychology. Good sense and judgment are substituted by excessive and extravagant emotionalism and a tendency toward violence and aggression. Such people are easily provoked, intolerant and know no limitation set by any law. The error of this mass psychology is revealed in our Holy Book - the Qur'an where it says that human beings must act according to their own will and intelligence. And this is exactly what the terrorists don't do!

While Islamic morality envisions a life filled with peace, well-being, love and joy for all people, terrorism longs for a society where violence, fear, anxiety and chaos reign.

All believing Muslims the world over have unitedly condemned the 9/11 attacks in USA. But the tragedy remains that most of the Western World as well as countless others the world over, hardly let an opportunity go by without taunting and harassing innocent Muslims over 9/11 and numerous other bombing incidents. Islam denounces terrorism and so do its believers!

It's high time for the civilized world to wake up to this fact and accept it unconditionally that Islam is not terrorism and those who embark on this heinous path have nothing to do with the religion, its doctrines, its philosophy.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

In loving memory of my Daddy

They are not dead,
Who leave us this great heritage of remembering joy.

They still live in our hearts,
In the happiness we knew, in the dreams we shared.

They still breathe,
In the lingering fragrance, windblown, from their favorite flowers.

They still smile in the moonlight’s silver,
And laugh in the sunlight’s sparking gold.

They still speak in the echoes of the words we’ve heard them say again and again.

They still move,
In the rhythm of waving grasses, in the dance of the tossing branches.

They are not dead;
Their memory is warm in our hearts, comfort in our sorrow.

They are not apart from us, but part of us,

For love is eternal,
And those we love shall be with us throughout all eternity

I love you Daddy and I miss you...we all miss you!

Daddy, now that you are no longer here with us...

Instead of shedding tears regretting that you are gone,
I choose to smile because you lived.
Though I close my eyes and pray that you somehow come back,
I have learnt to open my eyes and see all that you've left.

Instead of feeling empty within because I can no longer see you,
I choose to be full of the love that we shared.
Rather than turning my back on tomorrow and living for yesterday,
I choose to be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

I can't help but think of you and feel horribly sad that you are gone
But I will always cherish your memory and let it live on,
Though I often cry and want to close my mind, and turn my back (to the world),
I will do what you would have wanted me to ... smile, wipe my eyes, love and go on.

I miss you Daddy ♥ ...more than words can ever express...and I wish I could have you back...somehow, anyhow....

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Masked facets of my own self!

July 21, 2010 Wednesday 11:00 pm

I wear so many masks, that I have forgotten what I look like. One mask for my family, one for my friends, and one for the world. I don't know how I feel anymore. I stopped feeling a long time ago. I fear what would happen if I let myself feel again. I know my finely crafted masks would shatter and then you would see what I really look like. My eyes only offer a glimpse at the turmoil and pain raging within, but not everyone can read my eyes …

Sunday, July 18, 2010

To be or not to be....MAD & Fuming!

July 18, 2010 11:10 pm

Last week was one of the most shittiest week I ever had in quite some time! And the worst part was that despite not being responsible for any of the goof-ups that happened, I was literally cast into the middle of the storm! What a week it was! Moreover to add the icing on the cake, I also had to deal with the temper tantrums of a delusional middle-aged guy! And that was the straw that broke the camel's back...and I let go of all my pent up frustration, anger and god knows what else!!!

Now looking back on the events of last week, I can't help but chide myself for losing my cool and giving that delusional creature ample scope to feel that he's important enough to piss me off! Oh, okay ...guess I am still mad..hmmmm...well to be honest, I guess I will remain mad and angry and mad at that creature till something else comes up :-P Ah...well...that's the way I am. Can't forgive or forget...ever! But well....twasn't my fault in the first place.

There are certain categories of people who I've always had low tolerance for...and it seems that with each passing year, my patience jst seems to be running lower and lower!

First on my intolerable list...are people who are so thick-headed that they can never accept their mistakes and take things forward from there. I mean, well come on guys...everyone makes mistakes...and well no one learns till s/he makes a mistake and accepts and then tries to rectify it. But, no...this logic just doesn't (or maybe they won't let it) make any sense to such pompous people...they believe they can never make mistakes and well...anyone who dares to say or point out such things, ought to have his/her head bitten off ...well...sth aka...the Queen's rant in Alice in Wonderland...'Off with her head!'!!! Just can't bear this lot!

Next on my hit-list are individuals who have absolutely no sense of what their limits are! Yes people...i just CAN'T tolerate guys and gals who cross their limits!

Then on the list are perennial liars who lie without any particular rhyme or reason. In fact many a times, I have seen these people lying through their teeth just for the heck of it!

Though there are some more who would have been mentioned in this list..well...I will refrain from doing so at the moment cos I just don't want my BP levels to crash through the ceiling! Even without thinking of them, my nerves are already shot!

So ciao for now...till I write in again!